It has been a long while, but since I’m home sick from my orchestra rehearsal this evening, I now have a chance to update.
In a nutshell, I finally have a plan for my life, yay!!!!! In the words of the Genie from Aladdin:
“HAIL THE CONQUERING HERO, NA NA, NA NA NA, NA NAAAAAAAH!”
Yes, I’m also getting back into my sanguine side. Sometimes.
This past weekend was a game-changer (and a life-changer!) for me. I had a long meeting with my mentors where we came up with a stratagem for my life, and how I can fulfill all of my passions, needs, wants, and desires in it.
In a nutshell, I have decided that my main purpose in life is to help people create true abundance in their lives mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and relationally, as well as staying on top of their to-do lists.
My writing is phase I of the plan. In phase I, people transition out of scarcity mindset. On a scale from scarcity to abundance, scarcity being -10 and abundance being 10, phase I helps people go from -10 to 0.
Also in phase I, I will be focusing more on my own healing and overcoming journey. While I made lots of great progress last spring, I’m not quite where I would like to be yet, so I will be making my own healing more of a priority. The great thing about this is that it actually goes hand in hand with my writing! Yay.
Phase II of the plan is my business. In phase II, people transition from 0 to 10, or true abundance in all areas. While the writing courses are more of a hands-off approach to healing, my business involves mentoring and coaching people on more of a personal, 1:1 level.
We finally worked out a solution to the crossover problem between my writing and my business, so I will be resuming my writing post haste. The first course is almost done, and then it is due for beta testing by my wonderful beta tester group!
Woo-hoo, I’m so happy to finally have that issue sorted out. I apologize for it taking so long!
Phase III of the plan is my music. I have decided to delay gratification on pursuing my musical goals until after I have fully transitioned from scarcity to abundance, -10 to 10. I am using my musical goals as incentives and rewards for building my business.
The reason I came to this decision is that while I am very passionate about the activity of playing music, I am not very enthused about the results of it. After all, the majority of the music industry is in scarcity mindset (the very thing that I’m aiming to avoid!). Once I have the freedom of time and money that my business will bring to me, I can utilize that time and money to pursue and enjoy music in a lifestyle of true abundance.
Next, we came up with ways to fold time so that I can do everything at the same time. I am actually quite satisfied with the plan and I’m very excited to begin.
All this time, I felt discontented because I thought that if I wanted to excel in one area, I had to give up all the things that I cared about in all the other areas. Not true!! This is actually scarcity thinking at play. It is actually possible for me to move forward in life and win in all the areas that I want to; I just needed my mentors and a solid plan to help me realize that.